After a serious car crash, I faced a challenging period filled with multiple health issues that led to the prospect of lifelong pharmaceutical interventions. This experience left me disillusioned, prompting a long search for new meaning and wellbeing. My journey took me around the world, exploring holistic therapies and Vedic philosophies such as yoga, meditation, TAO & Thai massage, and more recently, psychotherapy. Often, as the only male participant, I shared and explored challenging insights with like-minded souls. Together, we worked on creating new meaning and letting go of trauma, abuse, and distorted thoughts, replacing them with resilient and resourceful strategies for a meaningful life. I originally thought my future lay in a military career, starting in the Royal Air Force and then transitioning to work as an Avionics specialist. In this role, I trained Saudi nationals to maintain their military aircraft. My arrival in Saudi Arabia coincided with the onset of the Gulf War, triggered by Iraq’s invasion of Kuwait, just under 200 miles from where I was stationed. Fast forward ten years, I returned to the UK and ventured into the IT field, feeling out of my depth because my identity was tied to being a military aircraft specialist, while IT was merely a hobby. Within three years, however, I became an area manager overseeing 650 staff and managing multimillion budgets. Despite this success, I struggled to let go of my old identity. Eventually, I transitioned into consultancy and business coaching, continually shedding old identities and exploring new ones, before returning to the Middle East. I became a day trader, rebuilt a sailing boat in Bahrain, and studied to become a Yachtmaster, while my day job was computerising the Technical training systems for the RSAF. Throughout my travels and various courses, I was on a quest to discover who I was, and what my purpose might be. This was when I was helped in my pursuit by a life-changing car crash. This event became a catalyst for profound change; my journey took on a spiritual and existential dimension, leading me to embrace Vedic philosophy and embark on a new path of discovery. Nowadays as a coach I typically help middle aged women to increase self-awareness, overcome limiting beliefs, and build a new life roadmap with the freedom, fulfillment, and enthusiasm for the life they desire, through 1:1 coaching, online products and books.